Born in
Perth Amboy and raised in Bayville, New Jersey, Fr. Michael Tietjen comes
to St. John’s eager to share his love of chess with the students
of the parish school. One observer proffered, “He’s begun
a chess ministry.” By all indications, the 70 odd students of St.
John’s who flock to ches

s club on
Friday afternoons are willing, if noisy disciples.

Though Fr. Mike grew up near the Tom’s River, close to the Jersey
shore, he regrets that he never learned to swim. During a recent interview,
he cracked the wriest of smiles, counting his blessings: this way, he
avoided the dreaded jellyfish which patrols the beaches near his home
and he practiced the fine art of building castles in the sand. Fr. Michael
and his sister Laura were raised by their parents in a Catholic home.
When he was younger, Fr. Michael’s favorite vacation with his family
(mother, father, sister (3 years younger) and an adopted cousin (Andrea,
10 years younger)) satisfied his father’s passion for model trains
at the Red Caboose Motel. There, one could ride an old steam locomotive,
marvel at train sets large enough to fill a barn, or eat in the Venetian
dining car. He also fondly remembers lazy afternoons at home, wandering
down to the local duck pond with his best friend to catch sun fish or
industriously programming his family’s computer. Fr. Michael’s
favorite movies include Star Wars (episodes four and five, preferably)
and Raiders of the Lost Ark. Not surprisingly, Fr. Michael developed a
fondness for chess after his dad taught him how to play.
Attending public schools until college, Fr. Michael pursued his childhood
love of science, graduating from Loyola College with a BS in Physics in
1995. Upon graduation, the job market in 1995 was not kind, with a grinding
recession stalling the economy. So, Fr. Michael pieced together a livelihood
working at Rite Aid and a start up car sales company. His first “real”
job landed him in Germantown at the National Institute of Standards and
Technology. For over a year, while working in the semiconductor electronics
division, Fr. Michael began exploring his faith more deeply with the Young
Adult group at St. Martin of Tours. Though he found his scientific employment
“too theoretical” he gratefully acknowledges that Gaithersburg
and that Young Adult group ushered in a more vibrant faith.
Unlike so many young people, early on Fr. Michael “knew I wanted
to be a scientist.” Through high school and college he explored
different fields in science, looking for the right calling. While at NIST,
Fr. Michael decided that a more applied science, engineering, might be
just the ticket. So, he enrolled in another bachelor’s program,
this
time in engineering, at the University of Maryland at College Park. Concom

itant with
this quest, Fr. Michael’s faith became increasingly important in
his life. Even as his interest in studying engineering waned, “the
idea of the priesthood popped into my head.”
Initially, he fought the idea of becoming a priest due to a fear of public
speaking. With a few phone calls to the Archdiocese vocations office,
Fr. Michael learned that he could go to the Seminary to find out whether
he was supposed to be a priest without making a full commitment right
up front. As is protocol, he endured extensive background checks, psychological
evaluations and a nerve-racking meeting before a board prior to entering
Mt. Saint Mary’s Seminary in Emmitsburg. After years of searching,
Fr. Michael enthusiastically claims that “those were the best six
years of my life.”
It was at Mount Saint Mary’s that Fr. Michael studied under now
Bishop Kevin C. Rhodes who as rector was “the perfect blend of authority
and approachability.” Along with his passionate love of the priesthood,
he commanded a high level of respect, leading like a father. Fr. Michael
appreciated most his balanced, solid nature that left no room for duplicity.
Well equipped with such mentoring, Fr. Michael landed at St. John’s
upon ordination.
This fall, Fr. Michael boldly restarted the chess club at St. John’s,
shortly after arriving at his first priest assignment. Grateful to Michael
Beauregard (and Cheryl) who established a taste for chess club in the
past, Fr. Michael envisions great things for this motley crew: “In
addition to building intellectual ability, the game of chess has the capability
of building virtue and character.” In fact, once you are past the
mechanics of the game, the player’s personality comes across and
chess becomes “a mode of self expression.” For Fr. Michael,
“the beauty is in the ability of two minds to clash and see what
happens.”
We at St. John’s, are grateful that Fr. Michael has taken cues from
his father, Mr. Tietjen, who still loves model trains and who took the
time to teach his son to play chess, and his mentor, Bishop Rhodes who
modeled for seminarians how to lead like a father. Through chess club,
Fr. Michael hopes to form beautiful minds that clash and spar, silently.
When the chess clock chimes, our young gentlemen and young ladies will
shake hands, satisfied with their conquests and losses. With the help
of chess club and Fr. Michael, we trust that they will grow into those
attractively poised; intellectually challenging young adults whose character
gracefully defines them. Watch out, world! 
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